Why is it that people, mostly women, get so upset and jealous when their ex moves on with their lives? Why do people have to be so immature? Why can’t all parties just move on after a relationship is over? Not saying that a person can just move on right away; but, in most cases, I believe a person can move on right away. But, there’s always at least one person/relationship a person just can’t seem to let go and move on from. But, is that a reason for someone to act crazy, jealous and stupid once they realize that their ex has moved on?!

I’ve had relationships ended and felt like my whole life/world just crashed and burned. I felt like I couldn’t go on, move on or just be with anyone else. When I found out that they had moved on with someone else, regardless of how long or quick after our break up, I would always feel some type of way. I didn’t like. And, my mind would play all kinds of tricks on me to make me believe all kinds of things. Nonetheless, I didn’t bother my ex or their new boo. I would either wallow in my own feelings or simply move on with my life. Even if I mainly wallowed in my own feelings, crying, eating, sleeping, living recklessly or whatever, I didn’t go to the extent of reaching out to my ex’s new boo. What good would that have done?

So, when I’m being pressed with nonsense from my current boo’s ex, I’m trying to figure out why. Why is this person going so hard trying to get information and use it against me? I’m sorry, TRY to use it against me. Why is this person telling me all this stuff that happened prior to me? Why, and how, does this person have so much time to even be doing all of this stuff?! Why is this person so interested in me? If somehow my boo IS in a relationship with someone else, and I found out about it, what good is it going to do for my relationship by addressing the other person? By the way, a person whom I’ve never met and don’t know. Why don’t I just address my boo and deal with them and our relationship?! Confronting the other person and harassing them doesn’t make sense to me. ESPECIALLY, if I don’t know that person and never met them before. Now, if it’s someone I knew, and they knew about our relationship, that’s a whole entirely different story. Shits hitting the fan then!!

Let me just say this….continuously calling/texting the person, creating multiple fake social media accounts, contacting the person’s potential family and friends, stalking and popping up at people’s houses…all of that is exhausting and childish! And, personally, I don’t know how people find so much time in their lives to do such things. Well, I guess they don’t really have a life, or goals in life, if they have that much time to do all of that. So, I guess just local joke bums. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Bottom line is that when a relationship ends, it’s okay to go through the “grieving” process. Sometimes it’s needed. But, majority of the times, you just have to move on. I’m pretty sure there’s greater things in your life, or plans for greater things, you have going for yourself. So, capitalize on that time instead of wasting it on your ex and whosever they may be with. Because clearly, they’re not wasting their time, or energy, concerning their lives about you. Stop being salty and move on. Focus on your glow up and your kids. We’re good over here luv, enjoy! 💍😉